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我吃素受到考驗

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Club O 的網站討論區近日多位朋友分享吃素之苦。

您有什麼高見可以幫助他們呢?

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Little Panda——

最近我的素食路上受到考驗!跟家人出街食飯被視為“異類”,

仲被人拷問我媽媽點解比個女咁樣“5識念”,連阿媽都話埋;

本來阿媽都仲勉強接受我茹素既~一家立場忽然之間變左……
話我做乜出去應酬都5肯“低調”D,

(意思系叫我食白雞粥:不吃粥裏面的肉就算—

只雞系自家雞,自己養,自己宰,自己吃……

殘忍之極,我確實吃不下,所以自己另外叫左一碗白粥,就甘就出事了)

和他們講佛理,他們就說我細細個,甘鬼迷信!無謂講啦…… 點算啊? 唯有同自己講,呢D野會系無常既lo~~

無謂講啦點算啊?唯有同自己講,呢野會系無常既其實系他們歪解左佛理,你知道啦~系大陸,

好多人都認為信宗教就系迷信~等於5信自己……

關於茹素健康與否既問題,我已經比昨周生既《茹素精華》同《茹素策略》區地睇啦~

點知區地無緣分~竟然話本書講D也會系大話……

仲話根本無可能5食肉可以拿奧運金牌~仲話, 你又5識他~點知噃!
我真喺啞口無言……

 

April——

其實佢地都係不了解才會這樣說, 亦因為怕你不夠營養等,

其出發點是善意的, 並不是故意為難你,

你可以做的是慢慢讓他了解素食的益處,

若他們仍然不接受,就唯有一笑致之,

反正你那些親戚都不是時常見的吧。

 

Little Panda——

至於應酬5應酬既問題…… 根本5輪到我自己選擇……

阿媽覺的我食素已經夠怪,如果我5跟埋她出去食飯,

只會令到她對素食者偏見更深架咋…… 當然~我無破戒~~

甘鬼殘忍~ 我邊食得落播!!
堅決茹素!!!!
今晚團年飯,我都系鼓油撈飯咋~ 都不知幾開心!

茹素萬歲!

祝大家豬年快樂!

 

Cokechoi——

我的素食路上.. 爸媽沒有阻止我(可能以為我很快會放棄吧 ),只担心我不夠營養..起初"哦"了我幾句..但知道我為宗教持素, 她們也無話可說了 但是….上司就令到我不開心….回家哭了幾場….

起初, 持素我是漸進式的, 不吃牛, 羊, 生猛的海鮮…男上司就說:不明白有些人發願不吃那樣, 不吃什麼的? 他們應該今天不吃牛腩, 明天不吃牛百頁, 後天不吃牛排…..這樣可以有排"戒"了..天啊, 雖然我是為宗教而持素, 但佛教並不強迫一定吃素..只是自覺的發心持素, 我並不是發願要求用持素來交換什麼…有的, 我希望增長我的慈悲心. 有錯嗎? 再者, 如家人有病..為親人發願吃素有錯嗎…? 又沒有影响人, 又不是殺人放火… 加上那時不知怎樣跟爸媽說我想吃長素..所以…漸進式的吃..希望他們易接受些…

吃了差不多一個月, 女上司請我吃蛋糕…我因為不吃蛋奶, 所以推了…誰不知她板起臉嚴厲說"不明白你為什麼戒的那麼清?" 我笑笑口說: "哈, 各人的意願不同呢"…這還未完…她走向和其他同事批評我 又給我聽見….我心想..可能她關心我..但請不要以為可以改變我…我爸爸媽媽也管不着..何況她呢? 自此, 人家給我的食物, 我就轉送給同組的一位同事..

但這些遭遇更堅持我的持素决心! 感謝他們也來不及呢

 

Don——

阿媽對素食者偏見更深,又如何?

阿媽覺的你食素怪,又如何?

誰人偏見不深?誰人不怪?某程度來講,和他們爭論其實沒有意義

在家多與媽食飯,其他人可以不理!

 

fox_inca——

我唔係佛教徒 , 只為健康而食素 , 但沒有你們所講的問題……

也許因為少應酬(我份工要外勤) , 公司係人都知我食素 , 我亦會善意同人講d食素既益處 , 同埋教佢地點煮素食 , 又講0下肉點解會好味(因為有毒既激素) , 有d人漸漸怕食紅肉 , 跟我食素……

一方面要講好運 , 一方面要睇你點溝通…..

 

cokechoi——

Littlepanda, 大家要努力. 我相信你家人會屈服的 我持素只有兩個月, 資歷很淺..但自從吃素, 身心健康快樂!

動物/家禽不再為我而死 行路也大步 d

Fox_inca, 我的同事一聽我說吃素的好處己起晒"鋼"…可能因為我是佛教徒的關係吧..他們怕我傳教 唉! 所以在宣揚素食的好處..最好不要說自己是佛教徒… 沒錯..我是為宗教吃素..但因為吃素找到這裡..才知道吃肉是如此殘忍..宰殺過程是如此不人道..因為這樣我也把奶戒了..做一個全素者..同事/朋友問我原因不吃奶…他們的反應是"多此一舉…駛唔駛呀!"

 

zfeaz——

我daddy都係咁諗, 話食素怪, 有咩怪jer其實?

 

Ant——

素食生活的選擇和決意,實際上是自我信心和愛情觀念的轉移,勇敢地步上舞台,演譯『羅蜜歐與朱麗葉』故事刻骨銘心的人生活劇。

littlepanda 和各位回應會友的點滴遭遇,乃很正常和自然的初哥練歷,可以作為大家日後的參照。ant…. 十八年前何嘗不是遇過同等對待?時移日轉,都已成為過去雲煙,不復再見了,現在身邊的都是溫情柔軟的善知識,生活清淡但活得精彩的朋友,這種轉變更加證實了ant…. 選擇下半生棄肉食擇素食的正確信念,既健康又安心,今後死而無悔!

飲食,衣裝,居室,行腳,都是個人的選擇,每個人的環境不同,各人有自己的取向,如此,又何必理會他人的長言短語,不分是非皂白地胡亂拉扯,而傷害了自己純情的『素愛』!

別人不明白,ant…. 只好默默替他們祝福,願他們早日學懂感動,愛惜自己和其他禽畜的身體,永不以各式各樣的藉口去互相殺戮取命,永不愚昧地墮進地獄般的你死我活;卻要好好地珍惜自己的下半世,活現今生!

人間應該是溫暖又可愛的,素食應該是有意義和感人的,您說是不是?

送上心底摯愛的祝福!

 


 

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5 Responses to “我吃素受到考驗”

  1. on 25 二月 2007 at 12:42 amcathy

    有些人真的很奇怪,自己事事要求自主自由,偏偏強加自己的一套於別人身上,亳不尊重別人的飲食自由。如果我是little panda,我會笑笑,說:「你就當我偏食囉!(偏食健康、有益身體、令身心平和的食物)」

  2. on 26 二月 2007 at 2:24 amiamtrance

    都是那句:「要吃得開心!」

    推薦書籍:腦內革命。春山茂雄

  3. on 26 二月 2007 at 2:32 amiamtrance

    如果覺得吃得苦,放下吧

    一切發生必有它的原因

    苦就別吃,幹嘛將自己置於矛盾中?

    要知道,這樣很傷反身(就算是全素者)

    你明毋?

  4. on 01 三月 2007 at 11:47 amcatcat

    好開心與大家分享一點心聲吧:
    我已茹素快18年了, 原來每人內在的”自信”好重要,這是來自上天給每個人的恩賜, 人人有份, “無一倖免”!! 哈哈
    這恩賜既是簡單又俐落, 全不複雜!
    或許有人會說怎麼他如此這般?怎麼她又如是為難?怎麼他說她講又似是而又非的理理由由……?
    也許要清理清洗的是自己的生活方式, 生活的態度, 吃的方式和態度吧, 慢慢地,身心靈不再活於人家的話語裡, 內在的”定力_自信”重新浮現,重新發揮這種亮麗氛芳的氣息, 讓周遭的人, 地, 事, 物都感受這氣息, 這不在乎言亦在乎語, 千言萬語也沒法擋這種魅力!
    大地時刻蘊藏這迷人的魅力和氣息, 不妨試試讓大地為你清洗,透過觀賞也未嘗不可的, 好好珍惜人人有份的”內藏寶貝”!
    大地好,你好他好她她, 眾生都好呢!
    豬豬,是我們很好學習的例子, 學習好好讓豬豬的優長重新浮現吧…..
    又長氣了, 祝福大家更有魅力的氣息

  5. on 07 三月 2007 at 10:57 pmbobo

    大家好!我是一名求道者,常常參與club o的節目。
    我改吃素兩年半,期間吃盡苦頭,痛苦不堪,經常做有關吃素帶來的壓力、痛苦與恐懼之夢……家人、親戚、上司的連環攻擊讓我非常難受……

    我吃素的理由有許多,比如尊敬生命、環保和健康等,茹素兩年之後試過因為太痛苦而幾乎放棄素食,慶幸那時侯我接觸到《素食者生存遊戲》一書,令我堅持繼續食素。此書實在使我穫益良多,真是感激不盡!

    如今,我經已漸漸解脫素食之苦,越來越體驗到素食的美好,周遭的人也逐漸接受和尊重我堅決茹素的行為。

    我發現有些素食者對肉食者非常反感,好像一定要跟肉食者誓不兩立似的。其實,不管在口頭上或心態上對抗肉食者,只會加深彼此的鴻溝,變成敵對的關係,令關係變得緊張和僵化。我自己也經歷過這個階段,現已超越了這種二元對立的飲食觀。

    《素食者生存遊戲》教導素食者如何輕鬆自在優遊於肉食世界,內容極其詳盡細膩,令我明白素食者不需要同肉食者對立,反而可以多體諒肉食者所受的主流社會肉食文化制約之苦,以同理心及智慧拉近雙方的距離。我誠意推薦這本書給所有有志素食之士。

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